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Ordered by: No. Changed (newest first) Distinction

Distinction contains:

No.	Changed	Distinction
0	2019-03-07	By integrating Specific Practical Applications of Radical Knowledge into your five bodies you change your relationship with the Universe.
1	2018-11-22	You have a Box.
2	2018-06-16	You are not your Box.
3	2018-06-16	Problems with people come from expecting they should be different from their Box.
4	2018-06-16	Everything that happens is neutral.
5	2016-01-27	You are always creating.
6	2016-01-27	There is no such thing as a problem.
7	2016-01-27	Your attention is your only resource.
8	2016-01-27	You create reality with Is-Glue.
9	2016-01-27	Communication is the manifestation of purpose.
10	2016-01-27	Between the outer world (sights, sounds, physical sensations, smells, experiences, relationships, external conversations, etc.), and the inner world (concepts, memories, reactions, images, internal conversations, etc.), there exists a thin space of freedom called the gap.
11	2016-01-27	Responsibility is the procedure for change.
12	2016-01-27	Low drama is not life.
13	2016-01-27	You can responsibly choose, declare, and ask best when you are centered.
14	2016-01-27	You can access new possibilities by minimizing your NOW.
15	2019-08-23	There exist gaps between moments.
16	2016-01-27	The space determines what is possible.
17	2016-01-27	Addiction is not the problem. Addiction is the solution to the problem.
18	2016-01-27	Trust is a decision.
19	2016-01-27	Distinctions create clarity. Clarity creates possibility.
20	2016-01-27	Emotions are incomplete feelings.
21	2016-01-27	Feedback is gold.
22	2016-01-27	You can shift who people are by shifting your stories about them.
23	2016-01-27	You can shift who you are by shifting other people's stories about you.
24	2016-01-27	The most important thing that ever happened to you in your entire life is happening right now.
25	2016-01-27	The Box survives in a verbal reality. There are other realities.
26	2016-01-27	Each space is connected to every other space.
27	2016-01-27	What really matters to you also happens to be your destiny.
28	2016-01-27	Before you can create possibility for someone else, you must first create possibility for yourself. The way to create possibility for yourself is to shift identity. A useful identity to shift into is the identity called Possibility Manager.
29	2016-01-27	Modern technology does not give you security.
30	2016-01-27	You create your feelings to serve conscious or unconscious purposes.
31	2016-01-27	Distinctions are a higher technology than boundaries.
32	2016-01-27	What you have is what you want.
33	2016-01-27	There is a difference between your heart and your soul. Your heart is for giving to the people you love. Your soul is for giving to your destiny.
34	2016-01-27	There is a difference between positive feedback and praise. Praise is conditioning.
35	2016-01-27	Being offended is a result of self-importance.
36	2016-01-27	Relationship is an ongoing act of nonlinear creation.
37	2016-01-27	The best way to learn something is to teach it.
38	2016-01-27	Everything happens wordlessly.
39	2016-01-27	The most devious victim story is the responsible victim story.
40	2016-01-27	Something completely different from this is possible right now.
41	2016-01-27	Having a conversation about the conversation creates the possibility of possibility.
42	2016-01-27	There is no enemy.
43	2016-01-27	Stress is the unacknowledged fear that something you already experienced will happen again.
44	2016-01-27	Ninety-nine percent of the possibilities available to you right now are invisible to you.
45	2016-01-27	Relationships thrive when you commit to what the other person is committed to.
46	2016-01-27	One person with possibility can reinvent the world.
47	2016-01-27	Your psychology is a virtual reality.
48	2016-01-27	If you cannot make a decision then there is a part of your Box that is playing dead.
49	2016-01-27	Reasons are only an attempt to look sane.
50	2016-01-27	If you are not feeling afraid, you are not creating.
51	2016-01-27	Your mind functions in the service of your Box.
52	2016-01-27	Love does not come from somebody else.
53	2016-01-27	Positionality is the Box defending itself.
54	2016-01-27	People are primates.
55	2016-01-27	Stay hungry.
56	2016-01-27	Fear of death indicates that you are not really living.
57	2016-01-27	A problem signals the start of the next gameworld.
58	2016-01-27	Your job as a Possibility Manager is to redeem the darkness.
59	2016-01-27	For a human being, the stimulus never causes the response.
60	2016-01-27	The extraordinary cannot be reached through the ordinary.
61	2016-01-27	Two things cannot occupy the same space at the same time.
62	2016-01-27	Goddesses are made, not found.
63	2016-01-27	Bringing integrity to your clarity results in discipline. – Or – Nothing changes until it hurts.
64	2016-01-27	The road to discovery is not the road to happiness.
65	2016-01-27	You are not your Box. (Part 2)
66	2016-01-27	You need not feel a certain way before you do a certain thing.
67	2016-01-27	What you disregard loses significance.
68	2016-01-27	The problem is the solution. (Go into it.)
69	2016-01-27	A belief is a scab on your mind that can fall away when the wound is healed. The wound is usually the fear of not knowing.
70	2016-01-27	Relationship gets in the way of intimacy.
71	2016-01-27	No amount of processing will ever remove the hooks of resentment from your heart.
72	2016-01-27	To be a leader does not mean to be the best, or to be perfect, or to know how, or to be in control.
73	2016-01-27	You are not looking for something. You are looking for energetic food.
74	2016-01-27	You live in a patriarchy. You have the power to make the patriarchy irrelevant.
75	2016-01-27	You have a right to your true ambitions.
76	2016-01-27	Possibility Village exists already now.
77	2016-01-27	When you are divided you know where Gremlin is.
78	2016-01-27	Wherever you feel stress is precisely where you are being irresponsible.
79	2016-01-27	Clear firm boundaries form the jungle gym upon which children develop muscles of responsibility.
80	2016-01-27	Intimacy heals denial.
81	2016-01-27	If you are not doing your art it is because you do not have to.
82	2016-01-27	If you want it you will not get it.
83	2016-01-27	There is a series of secret rooms. The key to the next room is in the room you are in.
84	2016-01-27	You can be killed and not die.
85	2016-01-27	Every action you make navigates you into one of three kinds of relationship: ordinary, extraordinary or archetypal.
86	2016-01-27	Saying YES is a lie unless you are also fully able to say NO.
87	2016-01-27	New results come from new mental maps.
88	2016-01-27	Trying to be a single mom in modern Western civilization is impossible.
89	2016-01-27	The vast majority of your actions originate from the weakest of motives: status.
90	2016-01-27	Your greatest responsibility is to live your dream.
91	2016-01-27	Low drama is false ecstasy.
92	2016-01-27	If you move faster than the speed of love then you avoid the experience of love.
93	2016-01-27	You have infinite resources when you can ask for help.
94	2016-01-27	There is no such thing as profit. In a closed system all costs are eventually revealed.
95	2016-01-27	In the moment you seriously consider suicide your authentic life can begin.
96	2016-01-27	For 40,000 years human beings knew that children do not become adult except through formidable initiation processes. We seem to have forgotten.
97	2016-01-27	Creating is more powerful than depression.
98	2016-01-27	There are two kinds of learning: defensive and expansive.
99	2016-01-27	If you do not consciously feed your Gremlin then Gremlin feeds on you.
100	2016-02-05	The idea of incompatible evolution is a fallacy.
101	2016-01-27	You may think that you understand. You may think that you do not understand. Both are illusions.
102	2016-01-27	You are not making enough mistakes.
103	2016-01-27	Your partner can adore you only when you are vulnerably present.
104	2016-01-27	You may never know the value of what you write. Write anyway.
105	2016-01-27	You can awaken aliveness through nonviolent non-cooperation with what is not you.
106	2016-01-27	Your culture changes in the moment you implement new ritual.
107	2016-01-27	Your anger about a thing is the fuel you are given to change that thing.
108	2016-01-27	It requires new skills to parent children who may live longer than civilization.
109	2016-01-27	The hidden purpose of your relationship may be to feed your Gremlin.
110	2016-01-27	When you stop looking outside of yourself for who you are, you stop watching TV.
111	2016-01-27	To make something happen, commit first, before you know how – commitment creates the necessity for gaining knowledge and resources.
112	2016-01-27	If it is so important to send children to school so they gain social competence, where does all the social competence go?
113	2016-01-27	Taking responsibility for your intrinsic power of conscious choice ignites your creative potential.
114	2016-01-27	Politicians are not your leaders.
115	2016-01-27	Being nice is Gremlin food.
116	2016-01-27	Competing with others comes from not respecting yourself.
117	2016-01-27	Security and commitment are mutually exclusive.
118	2016-01-27	Looking for the leader is seeking someone else to blame.
119	2016-01-27	If your self-image is based on what you see when you look in the mirror, your woman is getting very bored.
120	2016-01-27	Guilt is a concept.
121	2016-01-27	You are alone, therefore, you always have a valuable contribution to make.
122	2016-01-27	You are always improvising. You can never be fully prepared.
123	2016-01-27	Television is modern culture’s substitute for community.
124	2016-01-27	If where you place your attention is determined by your story, then your Box is living your life, not you.
125	2016-01-27	You built the dance floor for the dance you are dancing.
126	2016-01-27	The thoughtmaps you are using determine how reality works for you.
127	2016-01-27	If you do not own the parallel energetic ecology of demons and light- beings then that ecology owns (and eats) you.
128	2016-01-27	Your mind can understand concepts that have no relationship to reality, meaning, you could be seriously fooling yourself.
129	2016-01-27	Responsibility is applied consciousness.
130	2016-01-27	Shock is improperly integrated life energy.
131	2016-01-27	It is impossible to be offended.
132	2016-01-27	It makes a difference whether you serve from a concept or from your four bodies.
133	2016-01-27	Saying what you want is different from making a boundary.
134	2016-01-27	Taking control of your outer TV frees you to take control of your inner TV.
135	2018-12-17	God did not rest on the seventh day.
136	2016-01-27	Your opportunities are shaped by your agreements.
137	2016-01-27	Contributing your talents full out can feel like you are going crazy.
138	2016-01-27	Without fear, love is dead.
139	2016-01-27	Grief is not an emotion; it is the appropriate and necessary participation in a change process.
140	2016-01-27	You can commit to the people who tell you why they cannot commit to you.
141	2016-01-27	You are the space through which your archetypal lineage can do its work in the world.
142	2016-01-27	Insecurity is the fear of feeling fear.
143	2016-01-27	Being reasonable blocks you from being yourself.
144	2016-01-27	Parenting ends with a Mom or Dad graduation party.
145	2016-01-27	You are not what is written in your passport.
146	2016-01-27	Either you consciously design each gameworld you live in or you are a pawn in someone else’s gameworld.
147	2016-01-27	Feeling resentful means your Gremlin is running your life.
148	2016-01-27	When you center yourself in Being, the Doing happens all by itself. This is the middle way.
149	2018-06-16	Fear is the most useful feeling for animals. Human beings are animals.
150	2016-01-27	Your first priority as an adult is to design and move into the country you would love to live in.
151	2016-01-27	Leadership is a shadow principle. Circular organizations require spaceholding.
152	2016-01-27	The more intensely you feel the consequences, the fewer messes you are willing to make.
153	2016-01-27	There is no learning step during Gremlin feeding.
154	2016-01-27	Intolerance is a doorway to intimacy.
155	2016-01-27	Being cool slows down your attention.
156	2016-01-27	A lack of authentic relationship produces overwhelm.
157	2016-01-27	If you are single your Box has won.
158	2016-01-27	There are only two things in life: bullshit, and nothing.
159	2016-01-27	Stage-fright comes from putting your center into the future and your attention on yourself.
160	2016-01-27	If it is not okay to feel afraid you may have trouble going to sleep.
161	2016-01-27	When you lose the empty space of silence in yourself you are already hooked.
162	2016-01-27	There is a difference between doing it right and navigating space.
163	2016-01-27	Your greatest anger mirrors what you came here to do.
164	2016-01-27	Aggression comes from being scared.
165	2016-01-27	Admitting that you have clear impulses of anger, fear, sadness, and joy makes you an agent of change.
166	2016-02-13	What you can distinguish you can choose.
167	2016-02-13	Your possibility horizon expands when you view yourself in #hashtags rather than in categories.
168	2016-04-03	Nothing confuses the universe more than your own indecisiveness.
169	2016-04-03	It changes you to know where you got the time to read this SPARK.
170	2016-04-28	You may fear archetypal love because it leaves civilization behind as a stupid gameworld.
171	2016-06-14	You are already famous.
172	2016-06-14	You cannot kill one story with another story.
173	2016-07-01	It could be that your adult ego-state is contaminated by your child ego- state.
174	2016-07-27	It could be that your unsuccesses are revenge against your parents.
175	2016-08-12	Your soul is fed by doing things you are willing to be made a fool for.
176	2016-10-01	If you use sexual energy in your defense strategy you don’t get to be yourself.
177	2019-09-13	No one can be you but you.
178	2019-09-13	A good person is trained to break their own heart before breaking other people’s hearts.
179	2019-09-13	You are already ready enough for more than you think.
180	2019-09-13	There is vast intelligence in the fear behind your stories.
181	2019-09-13	People shout “No!” louder and longer than they shout “Yes!”
182	2019-09-13	An edgeworker’s Track Record has credibility according to a new set of standards.
183	2019-09-13	It is all foreplay.
184	2019-09-13	Changing the story you tell yourself about a situation changes the situation.
185	2019-09-13	A woman does not need a man to make her into a woman.
186	2019-09-13	There are five neurotic strategies for control.
187	2019-09-13	You do not have roles, you have a Life.
188	2019-09-13	Intimacy becomes delightful through expressing the fears in your 5 bodies.
189	2019-09-13	When you are in reaction you give up your freedom to choose.
190	2019-09-13	You can get out of overwhelm the same way you got into it.
191	2019-09-13	You block transformational resources by using energetic “I know” and “I don’t know” torpedoes.
192	2019-09-13	The reason is not the cause. Purpose prevails.
193	2019-09-13	Life is a nonspecific question.
194	2019-09-13	No one can stand in your juiciness but you.
195	2019-09-13	Flow restarts through speaking your unspoken things.
196	2019-09-13	Freeing yourself from perfectionism should not free you from being neurotic.
197	2019-09-13	Each time you listen to a Gremlin Rumor without destroying it, you become as contaminated as the person who tells it to you.
198	2019-10-31	Saying what you want makes you vulnerable.
199	2019-11-13	You can choose about the forces influencing your choices.
200	2019-12-05	Having integrity does not restrict your freedom of movement.