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Download 12018-11-22You have a Box.
Download 22018-06-16You are not your Box.
Download 32018-06-16Problems with people come from expecting they should be different from their Box.
Download 42018-06-16Everything that happens is neutral.
Download 52016-01-27You are always creating.
Download 62016-01-27There is no such thing as a problem.
Download 72016-01-27Your attention is your only resource.
Download 82016-01-27You create reality with Is-Glue.
Download 92016-01-27Communication is the manifestation of purpose.
Download 102016-01-27Between the outer world (sights, sounds, physical sensations, smells, experiences, relationships, external conversations, etc.), and the inner world (concepts, memories, reactions, images, internal conversations, etc.), there exists a thin space of freedom called the gap.
Download 112016-01-27Responsibility is the procedure for change.
Download 122016-01-27Low drama is not life.
Download 132016-01-27You can responsibly choose, declare, and ask best when you are centered.
Download 142016-01-27You can access new possibilities by minimizing your NOW.
Download 152016-01-27There exist gaps between moments.
Download 162016-01-27The space determines what is possible.
Download 172016-01-27Addiction is not the problem. Addiction is the solution to the problem.
Download 182016-01-27Trust is a decision.
Download 192016-01-27Distinctions create clarity. Clarity creates possibility.
Download 202016-01-27Emotions are incomplete feelings.
Download 212016-01-27Feedback is gold.
Download 222016-01-27You can shift who people are by shifting your stories about them.
Download 232016-01-27You can shift who you are by shifting other people's stories about you.
Download 242016-01-27The most important thing that ever happened to you in your entire life is happening right now.
Download 252016-01-27The Box survives in a verbal reality. There are other realities.
Download 262016-01-27Each space is connected to every other space.
Download 272016-01-27What really matters to you also happens to be your destiny.
Download 282016-01-27Before you can create possibility for someone else, you must first create possibility for yourself. The way to create possibility for yourself is to shift identity. A useful identity to shift into is the identity called Possibility Manager.
Download 292016-01-27Modern technology does not give you security.
Download 302016-01-27You create your feelings to serve conscious or unconscious purposes.
Download 312016-01-27Distinctions are a higher technology than boundaries.
Download 322016-01-27What you have is what you want.
Download 332016-01-27There is a difference between your heart and your soul. Your heart is for giving to the people you love. Your soul is for giving to your destiny.
Download 342016-01-27There is a difference between positive feedback and praise. Praise is conditioning.
Download 352016-01-27Being offended is a result of self-importance.
Download 362016-01-27Relationship is an ongoing act of nonlinear creation.
Download 372016-01-27The best way to learn something is to teach it.
Download 382016-01-27Everything happens wordlessly.
Download 392016-01-27The most devious victim story is the responsible victim story.
Download 402016-01-27Something completely different from this is possible right now.
Download 412016-01-27Having a conversation about the conversation creates the possibility of possibility.
Download 422016-01-27There is no enemy.
Download 432016-01-27Stress is the unacknowledged fear that something you already experienced will happen again.
Download 442016-01-27Ninety-nine percent of the possibilities available to you right now are invisible to you.
Download 452016-01-27Relationships thrive when you commit to what the other person is committed to.
Download 462016-01-27One person with possibility can reinvent the world.
Download 472016-01-27Your psychology is a virtual reality.
Download 482016-01-27If you cannot make a decision then there is a part of your Box that is playing dead.
Download 492016-01-27Reasons are only an attempt to look sane.
Download 502016-01-27If you are not feeling afraid, you are not creating.
Download 512016-01-27Your mind functions in the service of your Box.
Download 522016-01-27Love does not come from somebody else.
Download 532016-01-27Positionality is the Box defending itself.
Download 542016-01-27People are primates.
Download 552016-01-27Stay hungry.
Download 562016-01-27Fear of death indicates that you are not really living.
Download 572016-01-27A problem signals the start of the next gameworld.
Download 582016-01-27Your job as a Possibility Manager is to redeem the darkness.
Download 592016-01-27For a human being, the stimulus never causes the response.
Download 602016-01-27The extraordinary cannot be reached through the ordinary.
Download 612016-01-27Two things cannot occupy the same space at the same time.
Download 622016-01-27Goddesses are made, not found.
Download 632016-01-27Bringing integrity to your clarity results in discipline. – Or – Nothing changes until it hurts.
Download 642016-01-27The road to discovery is not the road to happiness.
Download 652016-01-27You are not your Box. (Part 2)
Download 662016-01-27You need not feel a certain way before you do a certain thing.
Download 672016-01-27What you disregard loses significance.
Download 682016-01-27The problem is the solution. (Go into it.)
Download 692016-01-27A belief is a scab on your mind that can fall away when the wound is healed. The wound is usually the fear of not knowing.
Download 702016-01-27Relationship gets in the way of intimacy.
Download 712016-01-27No amount of processing will ever remove the hooks of resentment from your heart.
Download 722016-01-27To be a leader does not mean to be the best, or to be perfect, or to know how, or to be in control.
Download 732016-01-27You are not looking for something. You are looking for energetic food.
Download 742016-01-27You live in a patriarchy. You have the power to make the patriarchy irrelevant.
Download 752016-01-27You have a right to your true ambitions.
Download 762016-01-27Possibility Village exists already now.
Download 772016-01-27When you are divided you know where Gremlin is.
Download 782016-01-27Wherever you feel stress is precisely where you are being irresponsible.
Download 792016-01-27Clear firm boundaries form the jungle gym upon which children develop muscles of responsibility.
Download 802016-01-27Intimacy heals denial.
Download 812016-01-27If you are not doing your art it is because you do not have to.
Download 822016-01-27If you want it you will not get it.
Download 832016-01-27There is a series of secret rooms. The key to the next room is in the room you are in.
Download 842016-01-27You can be killed and not die.
Download 852016-01-27Every action you make navigates you into one of three kinds of relationship: ordinary, extraordinary or archetypal.
Download 862016-01-27Saying YES is a lie unless you are also fully able to say NO.
Download 872016-01-27New results come from new mental maps.
Download 882016-01-27Trying to be a single mom in modern Western civilization is impossible.
Download 892016-01-27The vast majority of your actions originate from the weakest of motives: status.
Download 902016-01-27Your greatest responsibility is to live your dream.
Download 912016-01-27Low drama is false ecstasy.
Download 922016-01-27If you move faster than the speed of love then you avoid the experience of love.
Download 932016-01-27You have infinite resources when you can ask for help.
Download 942016-01-27There is no such thing as profit. In a closed system all costs are eventually revealed.
Download 952016-01-27In the moment you seriously consider suicide your authentic life can begin.
Download 962016-01-27For 40,000 years human beings knew that children do not become adult except through formidable initiation processes. We seem to have forgotten.
Download 972016-01-27Creating is more powerful than depression.
Download 982016-01-27There are two kinds of learning: defensive and expansive.
Download 992016-01-27If you do not consciously feed your Gremlin then Gremlin feeds on you.
Download 1002016-02-05The idea of incompatible evolution is a fallacy.
Download 1012016-01-27You may think that you understand. You may think that you do not understand. Both are illusions.
Download 1022016-01-27You are not making enough mistakes.
Download 1032016-01-27Your partner can adore you only when you are vulnerably present.
Download 1042016-01-27You may never know the value of what you write. Write anyway.
Download 1052016-01-27You can awaken aliveness through nonviolent non-cooperation with what is not you.
Download 1062016-01-27Your culture changes in the moment you implement new ritual.
Download 1072016-01-27Your anger about a thing is the fuel you are given to change that thing.
Download 1082016-01-27It requires new skills to parent children who may live longer than civilization.
Download 1092016-01-27The hidden purpose of your relationship may be to feed your Gremlin.
Download 1102016-01-27When you stop looking outside of yourself for who you are, you stop watching TV.
Download 1112016-01-27To make something happen, commit first, before you know how – commitment creates the necessity for gaining knowledge and resources.
Download 1122016-01-27If it is so important to send children to school so they gain social competence, where does all the social competence go?
Download 1132016-01-27Taking responsibility for your intrinsic power of conscious choice ignites your creative potential.
Download 1142016-01-27Politicians are not your leaders.
Download 1152016-01-27Being nice is Gremlin food.
Download 1162016-01-27Competing with others comes from not respecting yourself.
Download 1172016-01-27Security and commitment are mutually exclusive.
Download 1182016-01-27Looking for the leader is seeking someone else to blame.
Download 1192016-01-27If your self-image is based on what you see when you look in the mirror, your woman is getting very bored.
Download 1202016-01-27Guilt is a concept.
Download 1212016-01-27You are alone, therefore, you always have a valuable contribution to make.
Download 1222016-01-27You are always improvising. You can never be fully prepared.
Download 1232016-01-27Television is modern culture’s substitute for community.
Download 1242016-01-27If where you place your attention is determined by your story, then your Box is living your life, not you.
Download 1252016-01-27You built the dance floor for the dance you are dancing.
Download 1262016-01-27The thoughtmaps you are using determine how reality works for you.
Download 1272016-01-27If you do not own the parallel energetic ecology of demons and light- beings then that ecology owns (and eats) you.
Download 1282016-01-27Your mind can understand concepts that have no relationship to reality, meaning, you could be seriously fooling yourself.
Download 1292016-01-27Responsibility is applied consciousness.
Download 1302016-01-27Shock is improperly integrated life energy.
Download 1312016-01-27It is impossible to be offended.
Download 1322016-01-27It makes a difference whether you serve from a concept or from your four bodies.
Download 1332016-01-27Saying what you want is different from making a boundary.
Download 1342016-01-27Taking control of your outer TV frees you to take control of your inner TV.
Download 1352018-11-02God did not rest on the seventh day.
Download 1362016-01-27Your opportunities are shaped by your agreements.
Download 1372016-01-27Contributing your talents full out can feel like you are going crazy.
Download 1382016-01-27Without fear, love is dead.
Download 1392016-01-27Grief is not an emotion; it is the appropriate and necessary participation in a change process.
Download 1402016-01-27You can commit to the people who tell you why they cannot commit to you.
Download 1412016-01-27You are the space through which your archetypal lineage can do its work in the world.
Download 1422016-01-27Insecurity is the fear of feeling fear.
Download 1432016-01-27Being reasonable blocks you from being yourself.
Download 1442016-01-27Parenting ends with a Mom or Dad graduation party.
Download 1452016-01-27You are not what is written in your passport.
Download 1462016-01-27Either you consciously design each gameworld you live in or you are a pawn in someone else’s gameworld.
Download 1472016-01-27Feeling resentful means your Gremlin is running your life.
Download 1482016-01-27When you center yourself in Being, the Doing happens all by itself. This is the middle way.
Download 1492018-06-16Fear is the most useful feeling for animals. Human beings are animals.
Download 1502016-01-27Your first priority as an adult is to design and move into the country you would love to live in.
Download 1512016-01-27Leadership is a shadow principle. Circular organizations require spaceholding.
Download 1522016-01-27The more intensely you feel the consequences, the fewer messes you are willing to make.
Download 1532016-01-27There is no learning step during Gremlin feeding.
Download 1542016-01-27Intolerance is a doorway to intimacy.
Download 1552016-01-27Being cool slows down your attention.
Download 1562016-01-27A lack of authentic relationship produces overwhelm.
Download 1572016-01-27If you are single your Box has won.
Download 1582016-01-27There are only two things in life: bullshit, and nothing.
Download 1592016-01-27Stage-fright comes from putting your center into the future and your attention on yourself.
Download 1602016-01-27If it is not okay to feel afraid you may have trouble going to sleep.
Download 1612016-01-27When you lose the empty space of silence in yourself you are already hooked.
Download 1622016-01-27There is a difference between doing it right and navigating space.
Download 1632016-01-27Your greatest anger mirrors what you came here to do.
Download 1642016-01-27Aggression comes from being scared.
Download 1652016-01-27Admitting that you have clear impulses of anger, fear, sadness, and joy makes you an agent of change.
Download 1662016-02-13What you can distinguish you can choose.
Download 1672016-02-13Your possibility horizon expands when you view yourself in #hashtags rather than in categories.
Download 1682016-04-03Nothing confuses the universe more than your own indecisiveness.
Download 1692016-04-03It changes you to know where you got the time to read this SPARK.
Download 1702016-04-28You may fear archetypal love because it leaves civilization behind as a stupid gameworld.
Download 1712016-06-14You are already famous.
Download 1722016-06-14You cannot kill one story with another story.
Download 1732016-07-01It could be that your adult ego-state is contaminated by your child ego- state.
Download 1742016-07-27It could be that your unsuccesses are revenge against your parents.
Download 1752016-08-12Your soul is fed by doing things you are willing to be made a fool for.
Download 1762016-10-01If you use sexual energy in your defense strategy you don’t get to be yourself.
Download 1772018-07-21No one can be you but you.
Download 1782018-07-21A good person is trained to break their own heart before breaking other people’s hearts.
Download 1792018-07-21You are already ready enough for more than you think.
Download 1802018-07-21There is vast intelligence in the fear behind your stories.
Download 1812018-07-21People shout “No!” louder and longer than they shout “Yes!”
Download 1822018-11-02An edgeworker’s Track Record has credibility according to a new set of standards.
Download 1832018-09-21It is all foreplay.
Download 1842018-09-21Changing the story you tell yourself about a situation changes the situation.
Download 1852018-09-21A woman does not need a man to make her into a woman.
Download 1862018-11-02There are five neurotic strategies for control.
Download 1872018-11-19You do not have roles, you have a Life.
Download 1882018-12-06Intimacy becomes delightful through expressing the fears in your 5 bodies.
Download 1892018-12-09When you are in reaction you give up your freedom to choose.